Cheryl Cole, who came second this year, has won twice in 2009 and 2010.
However, talking on a chat show Cheryl revealed that Ashley never apologised because it would prove him wrong, reports thesun.co.uk.
"No, never. That would have meant for him that he was wrong and justified me leaving the marriage," Cheryl said.
Cheryl, 29, is busy promoting her autobiography "Cheryl: My Story" and preparing for the comeback of her band Girls Aloud.