The woman identified as the source of an FBI probe that led to the downfall of CIA Director David Petraeus  asked for privacy on Sunday as she hosted a lavish birthday party for one of her children on the front lawn of her mansion-style home near MacDill Air Force Base in Tampa. Jill Kelley,  37,  a volunteer social liaison with military families at the base  declined to speak to news crews gathered outside  with the exception of a society columnist for the Tampa Bay Times.

The newspaper later reported that she had expressed “her family’s continuing fondness for Petraeus.” More than 100 adults and children attended the party at Kelley’s home on Tampa’s exclusive Bayshore Drive.

A source close to the Petraeus family confirmed that Kelley and her husband  Scott Kelley  a Tampa cancer surgeon  became friends when Petraeus was stationed at MacDill from 2008 until 2010 as commander of the military s Central Command (Centcom)  which runs operations in the Middle East.

The couples stayed in touch  meeting in Washington when the Kelleys visited relatives.

Sources said Kelley and Petraeus “are longtime friends and nothing more.” The probe that led to discovery of Petraeus affair with Paula Broadwell was sparked by threatening emails from her to Kelley.