A frequently asked question is how does passion so often fizzle in a marriage? Bettina Arndt’s The Sex Diaries reveals the reasons aren’t what you think.
Apparently, the 100 couples who maintained diaries for a year are those men who love their wives and wonder where the sex vanished — without turning to cheating or porn—and women who simply don’t have high libidos.
The author states that rxploring the limits of sexual potential has little to do with clever techniques, but a lot to do with how two people feel about themselves and each other outside the bedroom.
Difficult emotions have often the unseen culprit behind a dying sex life — and for women who feel little desire, the answer may be fairly simple. "Just do it," says one of the spouses. It always feels good - as they say.