You just found out your partner is cheating on you. You’re still under shock. While everyone tells you what to do, here’s what you shouldn’t:
Don’t leave him/her, yet.
Don’t tell the whole world about his/her infidelity.
Don’t ignore the affair or pretend it’s not happening.
Don’t confront him/her without a proof and a plan.
Don’t obsess about the other woman or man.