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'I fear my girl will be pregnant'

I had safe sex with my girlfriend. And then the very next day, I had sex again. But after the second time, I fear that the condom could have split and I fear that she could become pregnant.

india Updated: Aug 04, 2006 13:04 IST


'I fear my girl will be pregnant'

One night I had safe sex with my girlfriend and ejaculated inside the condom. And then the very next day, I had sex again and I ejaculated in the condom. The gap between two acts was 24 hours but after the second time when we had sex, I fear that the condom could have split, as it was slightly wet. It could have been just body juices but I do not know. My girlfriend was not worried about it and decided not to take a morning after pill. I still have a fear that she could become pregnant. Is it possible that new sperm had been produced within that short interval? Please explain.


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