'I have two husbands'
1. I am married to two men and both are brothers. I have two kids from them. We are leading a happy life in the same house. While one of them is mostly abroad, other is with us for a specific period. I want to know if there are any legal hassles involved in having two husbands? Also, can this pose any health problem for me because I have read that having sexual relationship with more than one can lead to problems? Please help me out.
Crush on hubby's friend
2. I am a 26-year-old happily married woman. I am attracted to my husband's colleague. But I have no contact with him. He is not married. I want this guy to fall for me or woo me. Is it possible given the fact that I am married? My second question is: Is it natural for a married female to get attracted to unmarried men. Lastly, do unmarried guys also get attracted to married females? Please help in giving an advice because it's getting very difficult for me concentrate on anything.
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Fed-up with sex, commitment!
1. I am a 25-year-old guy. I am working with a reputed company, located in Himachal Pradesh. I am dating a girl from past two and a half years. We are involved physically too. Initially, I used to enjoy her company but from past six months I am not losing interest. In fact, I get angry on petty issues. She is pressurizing me to marry her but I don't want to marry her. What can I do?
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: The title of your query is misleading. It is not the routine sex you are fed up but pressure and demand for marriage - a quest for a stable relationship by your girlfriend. I wonder what promises you made in the beginning and during dating sessions but now you will have to be candid and honestly come out of this relationship.
Who is father of the child?
2. I have a peculiar problem. Man 'X' is the husband of woman 'Y'. Y is pregnant by her husband but during pregnancy if another man 'Z' has regular sex with the lady then who will be father of the child? X or Z? I can't take names. Please help me out.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Only one man can be the father. In your case A is the father as B came in the picture only after the baby has been conceived by your relationship with A. In case of dispute DNA test decides the issue.