'I fear my girl will be pregnant'
1. One night I had safe sex with my girlfriend and ejaculated inside the condom. And then the very next day, I had sex again and I ejaculated in the condom. The gap between two acts was 24 hours but after the second time when we had sex, I fear that the condom could have split, as it was slightly wet. It could have been just body juices but I do not know. My girlfriend was not worried about it and decided not to take a morning after pill. I still have a fear that she could become pregnant. Is it possible that new sperm had been produced within that short interval? Please explain.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: The sperms, once they start developing keep on forming continuously like red or whit blood cells, spit in the mouth or other body secretions. Every time there is an ejaculation, there is a general and equal chance for pregnancy to happen. It is for this reason well that pre, extra and teenage sex is discouraged.
Unable to reach climax
2. Before marriage, I used to masturbate a lot and reached orgasm every time. Now that I am married, I have a very high sex drive but I don't ejaculate, no matter how much I try. The only solution for me is masturbation. Please help me out.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You have got in to a mind-set (habit) of getting an ejaculation only after masturbation. You can seek your wife's help for masturbating you with her hand just before penetration and ejaculation. This simple practice will eventually help you get out of this habit.