Lend a helping hand
Helping your wife in household chores not only assures a happy life but can save your marriage from getting onto the brink of divorce. A research by the London School of Economics (LSE) shows.india Updated: Dec 05, 2010 02:08 IST
Divorce rates are lower in families where husbands help out with the housework, shopping and childcare, according to
a study of 3,500 British couples published this week.
The research by the London School of Economics (LSE), entitled Men’s Unpaid Work and Divorce, found that the more husbands helped out, the lower the incidence of divorce.
The study said its conclusions blew open the theory running since the 1960s that marriages were most stable when men focused on paid work and women were responsible for housework.
“The lowest-risk combination is one where the mother does not work and the father engages in the highest level of housework and childcare,” the study found. Researcher Wendy Sigle-Rushton said economists have spent much time examining and trying to explain the link between women going to work and divorce rates. “However, in doing so, they have paid very little attention to the behaviour of men. This research... suggests that fathers’ contribution to unpaid work at home stabilises marriage regardless of mothers’ employment status,” she said.
The study analysed married couples who had their first child in 1970, a time when most mothers of young children stayed at home. “The results suggest that the risk of divorce among working mothers, while greater, is substantially reduced when fathers contribute more to housework and childcare,” she said.
Some people may feel that in the Indian context, these findings won’t stand true. But the case isn’t so. “These findings are not suprising at all! I’d hate to be in a relationship where the man doesn’t help at all in the house. After all, a relationship isn’t just about a financial investment. It’s a partnership!” says Ruby Sharma, who’s been married for one year.
But some people still follow the traditional mindsets. “There are some men who still tend to go for women who will pamper them and look after them. And honestly speaking, some women also enjoy looking after their husbands,” says Debesh Mukherjee, who is about to get married soon. It seems this battle of the sexes won’t be ending anytime soon.
(With inputs by HTC)