Every relationship has its own sanctity and place. One of the closest is the father-son bond. Unfortunately, in the present-day context, father-son disputes are all too common. Trouble can come from various directions — tussle over assets, or an overbearing father trying to run his son’s life, or a rebel son trying to do his own thing. Thus, even such a close relationship cannot be taken for granted.
Recently, a person in his sixties visited me, looking harassed. His story: “I have a 29-year-old bachelor son, who helps me run my business. The business is doing well. However, my son tries to boss me around, ridiculing me often. Relations have soured to such an extent that we are not on talking terms, even at home.”
This gentleman wanted to know if vaastu could heal the breach. Vaastu does have a profound influence on every kind of relationship. In the above case, my client maintained that his son was neither pressured into doing things, nor influenced by anyone. He was certain of an invisible force preventing their bonding.
So, he invited me home. The house was palatial. But as I entered, I felt that the vibes were not right. The son’s bedroom, I found, was in the southwest part. This, according to vaastu shastra, is the quadrant of the master of the house. With the son occupying this quadrant, the balance was disturbed.
Every area of a house belongs to a different member of the family. The correct quadrant for the son is the east, which makes the occupant humble. Let us look at vaastu tips that can strengthen relationships:
Problems arise if a house is elevated on the northeast and is depressed in the southwest. Keeping natural white flowers in the north portion removes misunderstandings. Landscaping in the southwest area, if it is depressed, works well.
If you feel irritable for no reason, you may be sleeping in the southeast quadrant, the agni corner. This corner is not good for a bedroom.
Never allow clutter in the rooms as it hinders the flow of positive energy.
Never have a toilet, heat source or blockage in the northeast, as it causes tension.
The centre of the house should be clean and empty, or else there may be arguments and quarrels.
The author is a noted astrologer, vaastu expert and dream interpreter. Call 26449898, 26489899