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Is he only after your body?
Hindustan Times
New Delhi, August 16, 2012
First Published: 16:29 IST(16/8/2012)
Last Updated: 00:17 IST(17/8/2012)
A happy couple (Representational Pic)

Take this quiz to find out if your guy’s sexual longing is a genuine expression of his love or all he seems to want is your body
For each statement, choose one of the three options based on how the guy behaves across situations.

Whenever you are together in a secluded habitat, he:
A. Strikes a conversation
B. Marches at your erogenous zones
C. Gives you a warm tight hug and slowly works towards hot spots
 
You tell him that you are distressed and sad, and he:
A. Embraces gently to reassure you
B. Forcefully changes topic
C. Starts stripping you
 
Just before you two go on a date, he:
A. Hands over elaborate instructions on how to dress
B. Enthusiastically plans the day  
C. Tries to finish as much office work as he can

Just after you make out:
A. He loves lying cuddled up with you  
B. Dozes off 
C. Scans his body for bruises and marks

The next day after a hot date, he:
A. Sends you hot pictures
B. Calls up for a long chat 
C. Keeps busy running piled up errands
   
For him foreplay is:
A. Boring
B. A necessary evil 
C. Relishing
 
Whenever you meet, he:
A. Wants to make out 
B. Cherishes a good kiss at times  
C. Asks you to pay a bill citing a cash crunch
 
After a fight:
A. You make peace by a hot session
B. You talk it out then hug and kiss 
C. He wants to push it under carpet
     
His attitude towards casual sex is:
A. Positive
B. Negative    
C. Ambivalent
  
10 Given a choice when he is with you, he would:
A. Watch a movie   
B. Make out  
C. Discuss rampant corruption
 
what does your score say:
* Between 10-12: The guy seems to be quite uninterested in your body, mind and soul. He is either too shy or self-obsessed. If your relationship is in early stage, giving him some time makes sense. Otherwise, frustration awaits you.
 
* Between 13- 22: The guy truly loves you and his sexual longing is a genuine expression of love. Rejoice and strengthen your bond.
 
* 23 and above: All he is interested in is your body. How you feel and what you want really does not matter to him. If you do not take a corrective step you may end up feeling used and exploited.     

Scoring:
1) A=1, B=3, C=2
2) A=2, B=1, C=3
3) A=3, B=2, C=1
4) A=2, B=3, C=1
5) A=3, B=2, C=1
6) A=1, B=3, C=2
7) A=3, B=2, C=1
8) A=3, B=2, C=1
9) A=3, B=1, C=2
10)A=2, B=3, C=1

(by Pulkit Sharma, Clinical Psychologist)


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