Charm your way to his heart
For women it’s not always easy to make the first move in a relationship. Here are some tips to give him hints that you are interested in him, but then not come out as the one doing the chasing.sex and relationships Updated: Nov 02, 2009 14:48 IST
When you meet, do shake hands with him, don’t just wave a ‘hi’, look into his eyes and give him a pleasant smile. This shows that you are pleased to meet him and your eyes are all set on him.
The entire time that you spend with him, listen more than you speak. This gives men courage to express more, and the more a man talks, the more you know about what and who he is.
While talking to him give him compliments but don’t overdo it. This will make him feel special...and who does not like attention.
Dress up nicely and make an extra effort to look attractive. It will make him feel special. That you did all this for him.
Flirt with him. Laugh at his small jokes (even if they don’t make sense!). Men just love to think that they have a great sense of humour.
Don’t talk about marriage and the kind of husband you would want. First concentrate on being in a relationship and then maintaining it. But you can always compliment him saying that he smiles like a baby or his eyes are cute, etc.
Tell him that one of your friends got a proposal in the most unusual way, and that you would love it if your guy also does it his way and not copy anyone else’s style. But be polite.
Leave a little something to his imagination. Don’t bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be appealing and provocative to a man.