Hitting the right key
Don't worry about finding the right man or woman. Try hitting the right zodiac button. Here is how to woo your Cancer mate.sex and relationships Updated: Aug 22, 2013 12:25 IST
How to influence her - She needs the security of a strong and dominant man but not an oppressor. She has difficulty in making decisions, so help her with them.
She likes social activities, but is more attracted to family, home and children. Take an interest in these things with her. She is moody and can go from a laughing to crying state in a micro-second.
Be patient and understanding. She's sympathetic to others emotions and can easily take up their crosses. Coax her out of this situation gently.
She'll tend to put you on a pedestal so be careful to maintain your stature or she'll be hurt.
She needs you to be there when she needs your strength, so be strong and unfailing.
A few don'ts
Don't discuss personal affairs in public. She's careful with money, so don't be a spendthrift.
Don't criticise her publicly. She can fall to pieces.
She goes best with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo.
She clashes with Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Gemini.
Neutral to Cancer, Libra, Capricorn and Aquarius.
How to influence him - He likes someone who's a mental mate and can carry on conversation with him.
He's subject to mood swings, so help him when he gets down and be with him when he's high. He's very intuitive and can sense your true feelings.
Be genuine and real not pretentious. He can pick up whatever mood you're in and feel the same way within minutes.
If you are happy, he'll be happy, if sad, he'll be the same. He likes social things, but not in excess. Get his approval first before you commit.
A few don'ts
Don't get careless about your personal appearance, he appreciates beauty.
There are certain things or beliefs that he holds dearer than others don't tread on them.
Don't bring to him other's emotional baggage, he'll pick up these emotions and upset his mood.
Don't try to dominate him.. use diplomatic persuasion.
He goes best with - Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo
He clashes with - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Gemini
Neutral to - Cancer, Libra, Capricorn and Aquarius