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Is your sexual partner faking it? Try these tips

So many men fear that their partner is faking the big 'O'! And if you are worried that your partner might be faking, there are some tips to keep in mind.

sex and relationships Updated: May 03, 2014 09:28 IST

Even though it is a widely held belief that men only care about their own pleasure in the bedroom, the truth is that most men are very invested in their partner's sexual experience.

Making their partner feel good is more than just an ego boost; it's inherently tied to their love and care of their partner. It's also tied to their sense of masculinity, and how they feel about their sexual performance and abilities.

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So no wonder so many men fear that their partner is faking the big 'O'! According to Fox News, if you are worried that your partner might be faking, there are some tips to keep in mind.

Rather than trying to piece together clues or read her body language, it might be better to just come right out and ask. Don't accuse her of faking or make her feel put on the spot. Instead, ask her what she likes.

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If she's feeling shy, take the first step by sharing your own fantasies or by telling her about your own desires. Have your discussion over a glass of wine or on a date night, when she is really in the mood to open up.

While you don't want to constantly second guess yourself or worry about whether or not she is actually enjoying herself, you can learn some things from her body language. Encourage her to open up and become part of the experience.

Make it your goal to focus on pleasure and on the sensual experience of lovemaking so you both feel connected and desired.