Mothers do more household tasks while fathers enjoy leisure time
Household tasks and child care are still not being shared equally says a new study which highlights how dads are often seen as having fun while moms work around the house.sex and relationships Updated: Oct 09, 2017 13:16 IST
Do you think your mom works less than your dad? No, in fact she may be more hardworking, as researchers have found that dads are often seen as having fun while moms work around the house. The study published online in the Journal Sex Roles found that three months after the birth of their first child, on days when couples were not working, men were most often relaxing while women did housework or child care. A previous study had also said that no matter how much they earn in a job, women tend to do more household chores than their male partners.
“Household tasks and child care are still not being shared equally, even among couples who we expected would have more egalitarian views of how to share parenting duties,” said lead author Claire Kamp Dush, associate professor at The Ohio State University. The researchers conducted a study that included 52 couples who participated in the New Parents Project.
They were asked to complete their own time diaries for a working and a non-working day during the third trimester of the woman’s pregnancy and about three months after the baby’s birth. On working days after the baby was born, the time women and men spent doing housework and child care was more equal than on non-working days, although women still did slightly more work, the results showed.
But men made up for it on non-workdays, when the amount of time they spent in leisure activities actually doubled between when their partner was pregnant and three months after the birth. “On non-working days, parents are more evenly splitting housework and childcare,” the researcher said. On their days off, men were relaxing more 46% of the time while their partners did child care. In contrast, women were engaged in leisure only 16% of the time when their partners were taking care of their child.
Results were similar for housework, where fathers took 35% of the time off while their partner did tasks like cleaning. Women took 19% of the time off when men did housework. Men need to get in there and take care of their child and house, particularly on the weekends. In some cases, moms may need to step back and let fathers do housework and child care tasks without hovering to make sure they meet her standards, the researcher added.
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