'How can a girl masturbate'

There are no established and fixed rules for masturbation. Be it for girls or for boys. Development of normal sexuality and its expression is something instinctual. Submit your query

Q: How can a girl masturbate?
Age: 15
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A: There are no established and fixed rules for masturbation. Be it for girls or for boys. Development of normal sexuality and its expression is something instinctual. There ought not be external interference. Permit yourself time and relaxed state of mind. You yourself will know.

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Don’t be obsessed with the process. Don’t neglect other healthy aspects of your life. Only a physically and psychologically healthy person can have healthy attitudes towards sex and sexuality.

Q: The upper skin of my penis does not open. Is this a symptom of  any disease or is it natural? After how much time will it open? In this condition can I masturbate?
Age: 19
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A: The description of your problem requires a check-up by your doctor. He only will be able  to tell you exactly whether it is a problematic situation or not.

Q: My girl friend is 15 years old and we have physical relations with the help of condoms. Are condoms safe? Can we have sex by using contraceptives.
Age: 19
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A: Condoms are safe but not hundred per cent. There have been reported cases of pregnancies even after thorough condom use. Condoms can fail you at times.

By contraceptives, if you mean oral contraceptives for women then I would advice your girl friend to think twenty times. For one, they should never be taken without proper gynaecological consultations.

Two, for temporary pleasures quality of life should not be compromised. Think life, long term. Plan life, long term and live life, long term.Shortcuts are, as a matter of rule, perilous.