'I want sex with teen girls'
1. I have become a sex addict. This is not a question of worry but the thing that gets on to me is my addiction for young babes. In their teenage, I need them to have sex with me. It really is a cause of worry. Now I have an urge to have sex with girl between the age group of 14 to 17. Is everything OK with me? Though I have a wife who is 21-years-old, I need females younger than her and in different test. I am splurging unnecessarily due to this. Please help me.
Sex life going for a toss
2. I am a 42-year-old married man. I love my wife a lot. We go through the normal trials and tribulations any married couple goes through. However, sex has been absent from past two years. It is because I have difficulty getting and maintaining an erection with her. This has messed up my confidence and comfort greatly for fear of it happening again and I don't want my wife to think it's due to her. Things could be more exciting in my sex life but I've never had a problem in this area before like this. No new stresses or anything like that. What is going on?
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My wife's ex is back!
1. I am 31-years-old, well-placed person with a happy married life. Few days back, I happened to check my wife's recent mail in which she has been communicating with her ex-boyfriend who is now in Australia. The content of the mail in which she proclaims that she has been thinking of him all of the time, etc, has left me devastated. What I have been thinking of a dream marriage seems to have no roots of love. I do not want to confront her on this otherwise I may be labeled as a peeping tom nor do I want any discussion on this very sensitive issue. I feel I have been a failure as a husband as all these five years of married life I failed to get real love from her. Moreover, she has never told me anything about her last crush and I have never even asked her anything as I had always considered that as a closed matter. She has never been cooperative in bed, but now all of a sudden, she wants a scorpion baby (her ex's sun sign) and wants me to cooperate (which I was happily doing until I came across all this). All this is depressing me deeply and I am not able to concentrate on my job. Please help!
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: This is not an issue that can be kept under the carpet. You might not like it but you will have to confront your wife with this matter of her being in communication with her 'ex'. At the most she will consider you a peeping tom. You better be a peeping tom rather than a cuckold.
Husband ruining married life
2. I am a 44-year-old woman. My husband is very unhealthy. He smokes and drinks a lot. There is no sex or affection at all from his side and he doesn't even want to change anything. I am very depressed due to all this. I don't have a job, friends, or children and I am new to the place (USA). I want to have a child so badly but in this marriage it seems impossible. I don't know what to do! Please suggest a way out.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Your situation indeed is not pleasant and you do deserve some sympathy. There is always a way out from difficult and unhappy circumstances and such opportunities are a plenty in USA. Instead of depending upon your husband for all your emotional needs, you can join any support group, make friends through the group, learn a new skill or develop a hobby for satisfying your creative needs. To begin with you can start by participating in the activities of your local 'Mandir' or 'gurudwara'. This will of course not completely change your life situation but at least it would certainly mitigate some of the unhappiness.
First Published: Jun 16, 2006 20:59 IST