A woman’s candid post on X, in which she described a lack of basic courtesy during a date, has resonated widely, sparking a broader conversation about expectations, respect and everyday manners in modern dating.
A personal experience that resonated widely
A woman’s post went viral after she questioned why basic courtesy was labelled as ‘princess treatment’. (Representational image/Gemini AI generated)
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Taking to X, the woman, Sakshi, shared an experience that she said prompted her to stop speaking to a man she had met. In her post, she wrote, “Went to meet a guy and came back home alone at around 10:30 pm. He didn't even ask if I reached home safely? So I raised this concern and stopped talking to him. He said you need a princess treatment without doing anything. When did basic courtesy become princess treatment? Bring back masculine men please.”
Take a look here at the post:
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The post quickly gained traction, amassing more than two lakh views and drawing a flurry of reactions from users.
Here’s how the internet reacted
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The post quickly gained traction, amassing more than two lakh views and drawing a flurry of reactions from users.
Here’s how the internet reacted
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One user commented, “When we host friends for dinner, we always check back with them to see if they are back home safely. That’s just courtesy.” Another reflected on upbringing and values, saying, “The home environment and elders’ guidance shape one’s behaviour in terms of common courtesy. Toxic households with disregard for women often practise the same in later life, thinking it is normal.”
Another user wrote, “I ask everyone if they reached home safely, irrespective of their age and gender. That’s just the bare minimum.” Echoing similar sentiments, one person added, “In the first place, he should have dropped you home. If that was not possible, the least he could have done was ask if you reached home safely.”
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One comment simply read, “I’m sorry you had to experience that.” Another user summed up the broader sentiment, writing, “Sensible guys would ask this even during the daytime. This is not princess treatment. It is about being considerate, which is the least you can do for someone.”
(Disclaimer: This report is based on user-generated content from social media. HT.com has not independently verified the claims and does not endorse them.)
Mahipal Singh Chouhan is a Senior Content Producer at Hindustan Times Digital, with nearly five years of experience in digital journalism and content production. His work primarily focuses on offbeat and trending stories that reflect everyday experiences and evolving conversations on the internet. He has consistently worked on transforming viral content and human interest stories into structured news pieces that engage readers while maintaining editorial clarity. At Hindustan Times, Mahipal contributes to identifying and developing stories emerging from social media trends, online communities, and real-world incidents that capture public attention. His approach involves adding context and journalistic perspective to fast-moving digital narratives, helping present viral moments in a clear and reader-friendly format suited for digital audiences. Before joining Hindustan Times Digital, he was associated with DNA India, where he gained experience in newsroom workflows and digital storytelling practices. Mahipal holds a degree in Journalism and Mass Communication from the Vivekananda Institute of Professional Studies, Delhi. He is particularly interested in tracking emerging trends and understanding how online conversations evolve into broader public discussions. His work reflects a focus on accuracy, readability, and relevance in the rapidly changing digital news environment. Outside of his professional responsibilities, Mahipal takes an interest in history and sports and regularly works on improving his general knowledge, which complements his curiosity as a media professional.
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