Wedding season special: 5 briefs every couple should share with their wedding planner
We spoke to industry insiders Devanshi Patel and Damini Oberoi to decode the five things every couple must share with their planner from day one
Choosing a wedding planner isn’t like booking a regular vendor. It’s more like finding that one person who becomes your creative director, problem-solver, vibe curator and sometimes even part-time therapist.
To pull off a celebration that feels true to you, emotional, beautiful, Insta-worthy and stress-free, you need to start with honesty.
We spoke to industry insiders Devanshi Patel, Founder, Shreem Events, and Damini Oberoi, Founder, Q Events & Weddings, to decode the five things every couple must share with their planner from day one.
Be completely honest about your budget
No sugarcoating, no mystery numbers. Be real. Devanshi says, “Go beyond stating a budget, share your working number and what matters most to you. More transparency means better value, better results.” Damini agrees: clear budget tiers and priorities help planners, “allocate resources smartly and create maximum impact.”
Want a particular texture, fragrance, family ritual? Say it clearly
Devanshi says, “Share words, references, music, textures, fragrances, family rituals, love story moments, the emotional cues help planners build experiences with soul, not just beauty.” Damini adds, “This clarity helps translate emotions into cohesive design, décor, flow, lighting, and hospitality.”
Be open about family dynamics, guests and cultural details
Your planner is not judging. They just need the full picture. Damini highlights the importance of “guest dynamics and hospitality expectations” so planners can curate a thoughtful, seamless guest journey. She also stresses clarity on rituals and traditions to ensure the celebration stays respectful and authentic.
Tell them your story... the quirks, the in-jokes, the little things
{{/usCountry}}Your planner is not judging. They just need the full picture. Damini highlights the importance of “guest dynamics and hospitality expectations” so planners can curate a thoughtful, seamless guest journey. She also stresses clarity on rituals and traditions to ensure the celebration stays respectful and authentic.
Tell them your story... the quirks, the in-jokes, the little things
{{/usCountry}}These details are what lift your wedding from pretty to personal. Devanshi and Damini both say that when couples share their journey, personalities, comfort zones, and quirks, the wedding becomes meaningful, not templated. It can be anything... even silly inside jokes. These are the threads that help planners weave your story.
Give trust, not micromanagement
{{/usCountry}}These details are what lift your wedding from pretty to personal. Devanshi and Damini both say that when couples share their journey, personalities, comfort zones, and quirks, the wedding becomes meaningful, not templated. It can be anything... even silly inside jokes. These are the threads that help planners weave your story.
Give trust, not micromanagement
{{/usCountry}}Once you’ve shared everything, step back. Devanshi puts it perfectly: “Hire your planner for their expertise, years of experience, and worldview, not to recreate what you already know.” Her final word? “Creative freedom and trust lead to impact. Micromanagement leads to mediocrity.”
{{/usCountry}}Once you’ve shared everything, step back. Devanshi puts it perfectly: “Hire your planner for their expertise, years of experience, and worldview, not to recreate what you already know.” Her final word? “Creative freedom and trust lead to impact. Micromanagement leads to mediocrity.”
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