Signs your dismissive partner is changing, tips to help

From increased communication to being more empathetic, here are a few signs of a dismissive partner having positive changes.

Knowing the attachment style is crucial in a relationship – it helps in understanding the partner and the relationship better. There are a variety of attachment styles, and it differs from person to person. In dismissive avoidant attachment style, a person has difficulty in expressing their emotions and affection for others. It can be difficult to be with a person with dismissive avoidant attachment style. Often, in a relationship, with time, a person with dismissive attachment style can start to change. "Is your partner showing tiny signs of growth? Here's a plan to foster their personal development and strengthen your connection," wrote Therapist Benjamin Ekorhi.

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Here are a few signs that the dismissive partner is changing:

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Empathy and listening: When they start to become more tuned with the needs of others, they start to show more attention and empathy to the concerns of others.

Acceptance of feedback: A person with dismissive avoidant attachment style usually has a difficult time accepting feedback and criticism. As they change, they are able to handle feedback better and make necessary changes.

Initiative: Be it planning dates or finding solutions to problems, when the partner starts to take up initiatives in the relationship, it is a positive growth.

How can we help them to make positive changes? Here's a plan:

Open and honest communication: We should consciously create a space where we can openly communicate and feel safe.

Support their interests: We should take active interest in their hobbies and passion. When we start to encourage them to pursue their dreams, we motivate them for personal growth.

Positive reinforcement: We should be their loudest cheerleader and celebrate their wins and successes.