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Find your perfect match: 6 ways to date more intentionally in 2023

Whether you are new to dating or have been dating for a while, intentional dating can help you find the right match. Here are six ways to be more purposeful in your search for love.

Updated on: Jan 22, 2023 11:41 AM IST
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"Are you tired of dating aimlessly and not finding the right match? Intentional dating can help you find compatible partners and create more meaningful relationships. Dating can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but it can also be frustrating and overwhelming. With so many options available, it can be difficult to know where to start and how to find the right match. One way to improve your dating experience is by being more intentional about who you date and how you date. Intentional dating is about being mindful and purposeful in your approach to finding a partner. Whether you are new to dating or have been dating for a while, intentional dating can help you find the right match. (Also read: Relationship tips: 7 things to remember for healthier dating )

6 ways to date more intentionally in 2023 (pexels)
6 ways to date more intentionally in 2023 (pexels)

"In 2023, dating healthy will involve mindful practices and an understanding of the importance of strong communication and boundaries," says, Dr. Natasha Ramzan, Clinical Psychologist, in her recent Instagram post. She further shared six ways to date more intentionally.

1. Set realistic expectations

Be realistic about your expectations of other people. Be wary of projecting certain qualities or behaviour from your dates that they may not be able to fulfil early in the relationship.

2. Focus on shared values

Each couple is different, but you may value the same things, such as marriage and family, trust and communication, love and intimacy, and maybe similar religious and political beliefs, or being a part of a broader community. In times of difficulty, shared values will keep you together.

When you have a gut feeling about a certain person, just don't force it. Stop ignoring the red flags and evaluate whether pursuing the relationship is still worth it.

4. Communicate often

Please remember that people can't read minds. Express your feelings, wants, and needs verbally to your dating partner. The more you practice, the more effective you get at communicating.

5. Focus on the present

Refrain from bringing up your ex or old flames. Likewise, avoid comparing your dating partner to previous relationships. Instead, focus on your current date or partner.

6. Actions speak louder than words

Words are meaningless if not followed by action. Don't give promises you can't keep. Instead, show your interest by showing up, being present and actively listening on dates.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Akanksha Agnihotri

Akanksha Agnihotri is a lifestyle journalist with over 3 years of experience. She is a psychology graduate and holds a postgraduate diploma in Radio and Television Journalism from the Indian Institute of Mass Communication, Delhi, where she graduated as a gold medalist. Originally from Bhopal, the beautiful capital of Madhya Pradesh, she draws inspiration from the city’s rich cultural heritage and layered storytelling traditions that subtly shape her narrative voice. She writes extensively about fashion, beauty, health, relationships, culture, and food, exploring everything from trending styles and runway moments to wellness routines and mindful living. Passionate about meaningful and candid conversations, she enjoys interviewing celebrities, doctors, designers, and film personalities, diving into discussions on fitness, beauty, mental health, and everything fun in between. With a keen eye for trends and a thoughtful understanding of human behaviour, she brings depth, sensitivity, and authenticity to her stories, ensuring they resonate with a wide and diverse audience. When she’s not working, you’ll usually find her lost in a book, planning her next mountain trek, or mapping out spontaneous travel escapes. She loves discovering new authors, revisiting old favourites, and spending quiet afternoons in museums soaking in art, history, and culture. An avid bird-watching enthusiast, she finds joy in early morning walks, spotting rare birds, and reconnecting with nature. Whether sipping coffee while journaling her thoughts or exploring hidden corners of a new city, she constantly seeks inspiration in everyday moments that often turn into compelling story ideas.

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