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‘It’s about how you hold yourself’: Man explains why confidence, not seniority, earns respect at work

A man shared three workplace habits that helped young employees earn respect regardless of age or seniority.

Published on: Jul 26, 2026, 08:44:33 IST
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Age and designation are not the only factors that determine how much respect an employee receives at work. According to a content creator, the way professionals communicate, respond to questions and handle responsibilities can significantly influence how colleagues perceive them.

A man explained how pausing, confirming tasks and sharing learnings helped employees appear confident at work. (Instagram/maarij.n)
A man explained how pausing, confirming tasks and sharing learnings helped employees appear confident at work. (Instagram/maarij.n)

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In an Instagram video, a man identified as Maarij shared three practical habits that he believes can help young employees appear more confident and earn respect at the workplace.

Respect comes from how you carry yourself

Maarij recalled beginning his professional journey at the age of 20 or 21, when almost everyone around him was considerably older.

“Here’s how to get people to respect you at work, even if you’re the youngest person in the room. And the reason I can say this is because, when I was an employee at 20 or 21, every single person at work was at least five to 10 years older than me, and I got three back-to-back promotions within 15 months,” he said.

His first suggestion was to avoid answering a manager’s question immediately. Instead, employees should pause briefly, process the question and then respond.

“That two-second delay shows that you’re responsive, not reactive, and that you’re in control and confident. Being reactive makes you look weak,” he explained.

Repeat tasks to avoid confusion

Maarij’s second tip focused on how young professionals should respond when they are assigned work. Instead of immediately agreeing by saying “Absolutely”, “Yes” or “Sure”, he advised employees to repeat the task and deadline to confirm their understanding.

He gave an example: “Okay, so you want me to finish the report and send it to the finance team by Thursday, right?”

According to him, repeating the instructions makes an employee sound attentive and shows that they have properly understood the assignment.

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His final recommendation was to communicate with managers after completing a task rather than disappearing and immediately moving on to other work.

“So, instead of vanishing as soon as the job is done, tell your boss or manager what you learned from the process,” he said, adding that this could increase an employee’s visibility and demonstrate their value.

The text displayed over the video read, “How to be respected at work.”

Watch the clip here:

Internet reacts

The clip attracted several reactions from social media users. “This is very true,” one person wrote. Another commented, “These tips are actually useful.” A third added, “Great advice for young professionals,” while another viewer agreed, saying, “Yes, I agree with you.”

HT.com has reached out to the user for his comments, and the copy will be updated once his response is received.

(Disclaimer: This report is based on user-generated content from social media. HT.com has not independently verified the claims and does not endorse them.)

 
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Mahipal Singh Chouhan

Mahipal Singh Chouhan is a Senior Content Producer at Hindustan Times Digital, with nearly five years of experience in digital journalism and content production. He primarily covers offbeat, trending and human-interest stories, with a focus on emerging social media trends, online conversations and real-world incidents that capture public attention. At Hindustan Times, Mahipal works on identifying and developing fast-moving digital stories, adding context and journalistic perspective to viral moments while maintaining accuracy, clarity and readability for online audiences. Before joining Hindustan Times Digital, he was associated with DNA India, where he gained experience in newsroom workflows and digital storytelling. He holds a degree in Journalism and Mass Communication from the Vivekananda Institute of Professional Studies, Delhi. Beyond journalism, he has a keen interest in history and sports and enjoys expanding his general knowledge.

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