Wondering if a guy has a thing for you?
Experts decode signs that tell if you’re on his mind or not You meet a handsome guy at a friend’s do, he looks straight into your eyes, makes your heart skip a beat, and moves on to chat with others.Updated: Nov 20, 2011 01:58 IST
Wondering if a guy has a thing for you? Experts decode signs that tell if you’re on his mind or not You meet a handsome guy at a friend’s do, he looks straight into your eyes, makes your heart skip a beat, and moves on to chat with others. And you are left to wonder if that meant something. We’ve got some experts to decode guys’ body language to get you out of your misery. Here are some body signs that experts say might be telling that he’s into you or not.1. His eyes do the talking
If you meet a guy for the very first time and he keeps looking into your eyes for more than 6-7 seconds, it shows he’s hooked. "A prolonged eye contact reflects that you’ve caught his attention and he would be around to know more about you," says relationship expert Jai Madan.
2. He is looking at your lips
If his gaze keeps slipping down to your lips while he’s talking to you, it’s a sign that he is admiring you, fantasising about you and might even want to start a stable, long-term relationship with you," says Madan.
3. He never shows his back to you
If a guy likes you, you will notice him leaning a little towards you when he is talking to you. "He may also try to touch your hands casually or hold your hand. If you are in a group, you might find him standing next to you or facing you," says Madan.
4. He can’t hold the eye contact
If a guy is talking to you but can’t hold the eye contact for long, and keeps looking away every now and then, then it could be suggestive of his interest in you, which he does not want to admit. Madan says, "If he is not able to hold the eye contact for long, it shows he’s definitely interested, but is shy or thinks it’s not the right time to admit it."
5. He grins ear to ear
If a guy’s interested in you, he is least likely to give you a closed smile. "When he will smile you will see his teeth. That’s a clear indication of interest," says body language expert Rita Gangwani.
6. His pupils are dilated
Dilated pupil reflect that he’s falling for you. "The pupil of your eyes expand when you are looking at someone you like," says Gangwani.
7. Hand movement
A guy who’s interested will not cross his arms and talk to you. "His hands will move constantly and he will use a lot of open hand movement," says Gangwani.
8. He often touches his hair
Does he touch his hair again and again, or does he try to dust off some imaginary dust from his shirt? "He’s making himself look well-groomed and presentable before you. It shows he has you on his mind and is trying to create an impression," says Gangwani.
First Published: Nov 19, 2011 17:36 IST