'My hubby has had sex with men'
1. I am 24-year-old. I've been with my husband since we were 18. In January 2005, my husband told me he is bisexual. I know he's had sex with men. But I think he is gay. May be he doesn't want to hurt me by admitting it. He has told me that he likes both men and women, but sometimes he won't touch me when I want to be touched. I tried talking to him but he avoids the topic altogether. What do I do now?
'I want to marry my cousin'
2. I am a 28-year-old man in love with my cousin. We want to get married. But I have heard that it's unnatural sex for a boy and girl whose mothers are sisters. Is this true? Will we face any problem in our reproduction, as our mothers are sisters? Please help.
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'I am obsessed with older women'
1. I am 25-years-old. I am obsessed with older women. But I am married to a girl two years younger to me. I find my sex life very boring and unsatisfactory. How do I work this out?
Vijay Varun Kumar
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Life is not all about lust and satisfaction. But still if you find your wife 'boring', the 'only easy way' is to make your wife divorce you. After the divorce you run after all the older women of 35 or even more and have your fill of sexual satisfaction - the only thing you are alive for!
Have I lost virginity?
2. I am in a state of deep mental agony about what I did last week. I am a 24-year-old man and still a virgin. I might sound funny, but I believe in preserving my chastity and that virginity is one of the best gifts I could have given to my wife in future. However, unfortunately, I ended up sleeping a girl. We indulged in foreplay and blowjob but didn't have sex. Since then, a guilty feeling is daunting me. I cannot sleep, thinking of myself as a bad human. Am I still a virgin after what I did? Does a man lose his virginity after foreplay? Please guide me.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Technically speaking a man looses his virginity only after penetrative sex. So a blowjob still leaves you a virgin.
First Published: Sep 06, 2006 16:11 IST