Are you mad at your partner for not mirroring your effort in relationship? Here's what you are doing wrong
From complaining about their efforts to believing that our way is the only right way, here are a few mistakes
From complaining about their efforts to believing that our way is the only right way, here are a few mistakes to avoid.
Published on Jul 30, 2024 11:57 AM IST 6 Photos
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We may often feel that we are putting in more effort in the relationship. However, every person has their own patterns of putting effort and we must understand that. “Do you often resent the people in your life for not mirroring your effort? Not everyone has the capacity or natural inclination to behave the exact way you do. Nor should they! They’re their own unique person with their own messy brain,” wrote Relationship Coach Rebecca Ore.(Pixabay)
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We often expect the partner’s brain to work exactly the way ours does. This is wrong to think because what excites us may not excite them. We should embrace the individuality of the partner.
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Even when the partner puts in effort, we try to criticise them because we believe that our way is the right way, and every other way is wrong. (Unsplash)
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However, when we keep complaining about the effort of the partner, we start to add a painful perspective for them and the way they show up for us. (Unsplash)
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