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Woman shares ‘struggles’ of being the family's eldest daughter. People say, ‘we feel you’

A woman's post on being the elder daughter of the family has gone viral. `Many people could relate to her.

Published on: Apr 21, 2023, 09:11:16 IST
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A post by a Twitter user about how it feels for her to be the eldest daughter of the family has gone viral. In her thread, she expressed how she always has to be responsible and help out at home. She added how she has to be the “happiest person at home” despite feeling “worried or tensed or sad.” Her post has created a chatter as many related with the thread and shared their opinions.

Woman shares her struggles of being the eldest daughter. (Twitter/@Deity)
Woman shares her struggles of being the eldest daughter. (Twitter/@Deity)

“As the eldest daughter I feel like it is my responsibility to take care of everyone and everything. From making everyone at home eat their meals, making tea and snacks for guests, handling every crisis with a calm mind, taking care of everyone’s emotions, understanding everyone,” Twitter user who goes by Deity wrote. “Helping out at home and at the office, knowing everyone’s likes and dislikes, taking care of their allergies, guiding my siblings in the right direction, being good at academics, handling all the accounts, maintaining family relations,” she added. In her next two tweets, she explained more about her situation.

Take a look at the Twitter thread:

“Us moment,” commented a Twitter user. “No matter who is fighting with whom in the house, you have to stay strong and get both of them a glass of water to drink and listen to both sides and calm them down,” shared another. “I've never felt so seen” expressed a third. “Being an elder is more like a responsibility than being a blessing & here We have to understand everyone without getting understood by anyone,” posted a fourth. “I feel you. I feel this whole thread and it's the worst,” wrote a fifth.

 
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Trisha Sengupta

Trisha Sengupta is a Chief Content Producer at Hindustan Times with over six years of digital newsroom experience. Specialising in high-engagement storytelling, she blends viral trends with traditional journalism to cover the intersection of technology, finance, and human emotion. Her reporting spans real estate and personal finance struggles in hubs like Bengaluru and Gurgaon, the NRI experience, and corporate shifts like tech layoffs. Trisha also frequently tracks global figures and writes human interest stories. Offline, Trisha is an avid reader, history enthusiast and solo traveler. She balances her journalism career with family life while actively integrating AI tools into her modern storytelling approach.

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