Tahira Kashyap: Emotional atyachaar or random thought?
Is there something like emotional infidelity? Am I wrong in fantasising about being with a man other than my partner?
—Swati C, Mumbai
We are very complex as human beings. If you feel this is stemming from a void in your waking life, it’s always good to address the issue. But if you feel it’s random and isn’t consequential, then I guess just let your fantasies fly. Perhaps you can extend that creativity with your partner, too.
I’m a jovial guy and recently pulled a female colleague’s leg by asking her if she had a crush on an actor she loves. She took it personally and complained to HR. I am devastated. What do I do?
—AC, Via email
You should be. Being jovial doesn’t mean you have octopus arms, flinging them around as if they have a life of their own. Apologise and never repeat.
After becoming a poster girl of strength with her fight against cancer, author
Tahira Kashyap Khurrana’s straight-speaking has inspired many
From HT Brunch, December 13, 2020
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