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‘Japan’s convenient but not always kind’: Employee reveals dark truth about pressure to be perfect

A video shared by a Japanese employee about loneliness while surrounded by world-class facilities has prompted varied responses on social media.

Published on: Aug 8, 2025, 05:30:11 IST
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An anonymous salaryman’s video about the pressure of being perfect while surrounded by world-class facilities and infrastructure has sparked a discussion about life in Japan. The man said that Japan is a very convenient country with its safe roads, on-time transportation, and tasty food, but he claimed that people often are left alone and lonely when interacting with others.

A Japanese man’s post about the pressure of always appearing perfect has created a stir on social media. (Instagram/@japanesetypicalsalaryman)
A Japanese man’s post about the pressure of always appearing perfect has created a stir on social media. (Instagram/@japanesetypicalsalaryman)

“Life in Japan: clean on the outside, quiet pain inside,” the individual posted on Instagram. The post was published by an unverified user. HT.com has not independently verified the claims.

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How did social media react?

Another added, “I definitely felt this while I visited there. It was a beautiful place, but a weird energy was in the air. I often wondered if they were actually happy.” A third expressed, “I felt sad after watching this. It may not be as easy for people to share their feelings, and they are expected to be strong and ‘perfect’. Hopefully, those who are struggling would have at least one person who can comfort them, and whom they find comfortable talking to.”

A fourth wrote, “Indeed. Lived in Japan on and off for 12 years, married to a Japanese and spoke the language fluently. But, Japan always felt like when I went to Sunday tea at my grandmother’s house as a kid, I had to put on my scratchy trousers and be on my best behaviour. Japan is like that 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.”

 
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Trisha Sengupta is a Chief Content Producer at Hindustan Times with over six years of digital newsroom experience. Specialising in high-engagement storytelling, she blends viral trends with traditional journalism to cover the intersection of technology, finance, and human emotion. Her reporting spans real estate and personal finance struggles in hubs like Bengaluru and Gurgaon, the NRI experience, and corporate shifts like tech layoffs. Trisha also frequently tracks global figures and writes human interest stories. Offline, Trisha is an avid reader, history enthusiast and solo traveler. She balances her journalism career with family life while actively integrating AI tools into her modern storytelling approach.

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