When we are in a relationship with a narcissist, abuse can come in different forms, from physical to verbal to emotional. Working our way to healing is difficult when we have faced extreme narcissistic abuse – however, it is not impossible. Addressing this, Therapist Allyson Kellum-Aguirre wrote, " Abuse is difficult to overcome but healing is possible. "Here are a few tips from the expert on how to start the process of healing.