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Indian man credits American wife for making him ‘more Indian’: ‘She helped me be more myself’
An Indian man shared how his American wife made him feel more connected to his roots.
An Indian man has captured the internet’s attention after crediting his American wife for helping him reconnect with his roots and proudly embrace his culture. The video was shared on the couple’s joint account, ‘Half Past Chai,’ run by Suketu Patel and his wife Hallie.
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In the clip, Patel reflected on his journey of self-acceptance, saying, “Became more Indian, after I got in a relationship with my now-wife, who is white. I think a lot of Indian Americans, they go through this identity crisis when they’re in America. Everyone around them is white. So you try and be that, you try and be white, right? I’m not proud of it, but that’s what I did. I tried to be white all throughout my high school years. But then, I ran into this girl. Her name is Hallie. She was the first person to ask about my culture and be like, Hey, what does this mean? Why do you do this? Hey, can I come to this event with you?”
He added that her interest in his traditions changed how he saw himself. “It made me really start to think, I love who I am, I love my culture. I think I lost a lot of that because I tried to be someone I wasn’t. It’s really important that you surround yourself with good people. I’m so happy that I was able to find Hallie because she really helped me be comfortable in my own skin. But I truly think that I’m more Indian because of Hallie. She questions me, she challenges me, she loves learning about the Indian culture. She just helped me be more myself. And I hope everyone else can find somebody like that.”
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The text over the video read, “My wife made me more Indian,” while the caption said, “Married my best friend for real.” The clip has been viewed nearly 58,000 times.
Internet reacts
The heartfelt video struck a chord with viewers, many of whom left supportive messages. One user commented, “So amazing! So realistic.” Another added, “This is so wholesome! I hope I make my husband this comfortable to be himself.”
A third viewer called it “so cute,” while another praised Hallie’s role, writing, “Hallie is an amazing person for encouraging you to be yourself and embracing your culture. Sometimes our own partners are the ones that make us believe in ourselves and appreciate where we come from.”
