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Syrian lovebirds meet online, wed under fire

Yusef and Ghada met through Facebook, and with all of the courts in Syria's war-ravaged second city of Aleppo closed, they had no choice but to exchange vows before a jihadist commander.

Updated on: Jan 25, 2013 03:57 PM IST
AFP | By , Aleppo, Syria
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Yusef and Ghada met through Facebook, and with all of the courts in Syria's war-ravaged second city of Aleppo closed, they had no choice but to exchange vows before a jihadist commander.

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"It was a very quick ceremony. We signed a paper, exchanged rings, and we were married. The commander (also a Muslim sheikh) was too busy to waste time on us reading verses from the Koran," Yusef, 26, says with a laugh.

The marriage between the rebel fighter, who also works as a fixer for foreign journalists, and his 33-year-old lover brought some respite to Aleppo's the battered, opposition-held southwestern district of Sukkari.

Celebrating the occasion, AK-47 assault rifles were fired into the air by the rebels who are fighting to oust the regime of President Bashar al-Assad.

"Congratulations! May God bring you lots of children," one of them cheers as the groom's friends dances in circles around the newly weds.

Separated from her family by enemy lines, none of Ghada's relatives were able to make it to the wedding, and it took her months to secure their blessing.

"My father has always supported Assad, and when we first got together, I tried to hide the fact Yusef was fighting for the (rebel) Free Syrian Army," says Ghada, an English literature graduate.

Ghada's father eventually found a photograph showing Yusef wearing military clothing, and prohibited her from seeing or even speaking to him again.

But Yusef, who studied marketing at university, invited Ghada's family to the rebel-held area he was living in.

"I invited Ghada's parents to show them that the rebels aren't terrorists, as the regime wants them to think," says Yusef.

"They realised that life here is much better than in regime-held territory, despite the bombing of course."

Ghada and Yusef's story is rife with all the twists and turns of the conflict, which broke out in March 2011 when the regime launched a bloody crackdown on peaceful democracy protests.

They met online via one of hundreds of Facebook pages set up by Syrian activists opposed to the Assad regime.

"Yusef and I started chatting because my Facebook profile picture was an image of a little cat. He likes cats," says Ghada.

Their love blossomed despite the division of Aleppo into pro- and anti-regime areas, says the rebel fighter.

"We have only seen each other four times. She lives in a regime-held area of the city, and if I go there, I'll be killed because I joined the rebels," he says.

Yusef and Ghada pose in a street after getting married in the Sukkari district of Aleppo, in northern Syria. AFP
 
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