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Will I get pregnant? 2. I have never had sex with my boyfriend in last three years until recently. We made love just after I was through with my menses. Now, I am worried if I will get pregnant! Is it possible? If yes, what should I do? Ash

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Crush on hubby's friend 1. I am a 26-year-old happily married female. I am attracted to one of my husband's colleague. He is not married. I want this guy to get attracted to me or woo me. Is it possible, given the fact, that I am married? Moreover, is it natural for a married woman to get attracted to unmarried men? Do unmarried guys also get attracted to married females? I unable to concentrate so help me out. Anonymous Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Sexual attraction is possible in all sorts of combinations or permutations. It defies all social taboos, rules and regulations but you cannot make a man fall in love with you or get attracted to you or woo you just because you wish him to do so. It is up to you to decide what to do with your desire for an extra-marital relationship. If you want him the forget married bliss, security and go ahead and woo him but be ready for the consequences. Choice is yours dear!

Wife has no desire for sex 2. I am a 41-year-old man married from last 13 years. My wife is working in India. I meet her after every six months. She is least interested in sex and shrugs me off by saying that she has no desire for it. Should I go for a divorce? Please help. Sahil Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Refusal of sex in a marital relationship is fair enough ground for divorce. A frank discussion with your wife about divorce will surely help in settling the matter. Parents need not get involved at the discussion state.