'I want my husband to quit smoking'

Hang a picture of a single cigarette being stubbed out, suggests Mohan Deep...Post your query

Q: I wrote a letter to you about my husband's habit of smoking.
You wanted me to write to you the D.O.B of my whole family
My mother-in-law Chanchal - Nov 30, 1950
My father-in-law Hans Raj - March 22, 1942
My bhabhi - Poonam ( Sept 3, 1972)
My brother-in-law - Vikas ( April 18, 1972)
My self - Divya ( Dec 2, 1976)
My husband - Vishal ( June 4, 1973)
He takes 6-7 cigarettes a day. It's me who wants him to quit. He is not interested. He started smoking 10 years back when he was in college.
A: Dear Divya, hang a picture of a single cigarette being stubbed out or a photograph of over flowing ash tray full of cigarette butts on the Northwest wall of your drawing room.

But please note that nothing can be effective if your husband doesn't wish to quit smoking. It is the question of free will on his part. Simply point out to him that if doesn't pollute the petrol of his car - lest the car's functions be adversely affected - how senseless it is to pollute one's own engine, one's body.

The number of cigarettes he smokes - 7 to 8 - would not make him too dependent. If he quits, the withdrawal symptoms will not last beyond 36 hours.
As for your job, place a metal statue in the North corner of your drawing room.

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Q: Dear Mohan Deep
My date of birth is June 25, 1976 and I belong to Kua No. 9, whereas my husband's Kua No. is 6. In the year 2004, I am facing a lot of problems from my in-laws, especially my mother-in-law and one of my brothers-in - law.
Three years back, she had thrown us (me & my husband) out of her family without giving us even a single penny. But now, after struggling very hard and getting enough financial help from my parents, we had once again settled our life.

But now since the past 3-4 months, they are creating enormous problems for me by once again interfering in my life.

Initially when she began coming into my house, she behaved very positively and calmly. I thought probably she had changed and had developed some positive feelings for us.

But now, I feel that her intentions are not good as she has once again betrayed my trust by doing wrong deeds and misguiding my husband.

She is now on the verge of breaking my marital life.

So, Mr Mohan Deep, I request you to please pull me out of this situation as I am passing through great mental and physical disturbance. I should not forget to tell you one thing that my brother-in-law is unemployed, drunkard and has never worked anywhere and is also indulging in criminal acts such as theft, burglary etc to survive, which is very well known to my mother-in-law and instead of criticizing him, she always supports him and also wants us to support him economically as well as financially.

So, please, please advise me. She has unnecessarily captured my home for the last 2-3 days.
With Regards
Jasbir Kaur
p@vsnl.com
A: For ensuring that the relationship between you and your husband are harmonious you may hang a Double Happiness Symbol Hanging on the Southwest wall of your bedroom. This will ensure your union, alienating the forces that go against your interest. Also, hang a family picture of all the members of the family in the same corner.

For complete guidance you will have to contact me professionally.

Q: My mom having a long illness, last 19 years, having arthritis and kidney failure
Saifee
rainbow_picker@yahoo.com
A: Hang a Wu Lou on the window of the room she occupies.

Q: Dear Mohanjii,
Thank you for your Feng Shui column. I have enjoyed reading your advice and tips on Feng Shui. Born on 11/27/1969, MUZAFFARPUR, INDIA, I have had horrible luck in the marriage and romance area of my life. I am having a difficult time in finding a life partner. I would like your advice on changing this situation of mine.
With respect,
Sunita Sinha
sunitasinha@shaw.ca
Vancouver
Canada
A: You may sleep with your head in Northwest and keep two red candles in southwest of your bedroom. Employing `Moon Energy` and placing my painting of `Moon Energy` will also benefit you a lot to get the right life partner.

(Mohan Deep, a renowned authority on Feng Shui, based in Mumbai, answers your questions in this weekly column. He has been traveling to personally visit various premises to give Feng Shui advice and also gives off-site Feng Shui advice on floor plans by e-mail or post. He has a website (Http://www.fengshuimiracle.com) exclusively devoted to Feng Shui.
For a more detailed and complete professional consultation you can email him at
md@fengshuimiracle.com. His postal address: Mohan Deep 222 Shantivan, New Link Road, Andheri (W), Mumbai 400053. Telephone numbers: 91-22-26367999/ 91-22-56997992. Cell: 9820199378.)