V-Day is like an icing on an ‘already-baked’ cake
I adore the feeling of being that ‘special’ person to someone and thoroughly enjoy the experience of being wooed. But I’m a difficult romantic to please, writes Priyanka Chopra.Updated: Feb 12, 2009 19:05 IST
Ok, I admit it… I am a hopeless romantic. I can’t help it. It’s just the way I’ve always been. I love the idea of falling in love and all the romance that goes along with it. I adore the feeling of being that ‘special’ person to someone and thoroughly enjoy the experience of being wooed. But I’m a difficult romantic to please, because I’m not one for clichés. I like my man to be original — to put thought and effort into everything he does to please me!! Don’t get me wrong... I’m not a bra-burning feminist either. I just think I’m worth the effort, if you know what I mean.
Now, you might think that Valentine’s Day is perfectly suited for a romantic like me. Well, you’re right, but only in some ways. Honestly, I think Valentine’s Day is a tad overrated. But the one thing I really like about it is that it acts as a reminder not to take someone for granted and to let them know they are loved.
Also, for me, Valentine’s Day actually goes beyond ‘the man’ and involves everyone who is special to me. It’s a day when I also like to do something special for my brother, my parents, my grandmom, my friends… the people I love the most in this world.
Now, some of you might say that you don’t need to have one specific day to let people know how special they are to you. I won’t argue but I will urge you to look beyond the commercialisation of the day itself and consider the emotions that it triggers and rekindles.
I strongly believe that you have to let people know what they mean to you on a regular basis. Which why I believe that Valentine’s Day is like the icing on an ‘already-baked’ cake! It’s the something extra that you do to make the ones you love feel special. I speak for myself when I say that irrespective of how many times my friends or family tell me that they love me, I get all warm and fuzzy when they do something for me on Valentine’s Day! And I’m sure they feel the same as well.
In our heart of hearts, I think we’re all romantic — in varying degrees, of course! The only advice I can offer is to enjoy the moment, enjoy the thought and the effort that someone special is putting into a day like this, enjoy the emotions and, most of all, appreciate that you have the privilege to love someone and be loved in return. Not everyone does!
Forget Valentine’s Day for a minute… we live in an unpredictable world and what will happen three minutes from now is anybody’s guess. All I can say is never miss any opportunity to express your love and get some in return. There is NOTHING more precious, more priceless, more rewarding and more fun than love… in all its forms!
First Published: Feb 12, 2009 18:41 IST