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Fed-up with sex, commitment!

I am dating a girl from past two and a half years. We are involved physically too. Initially, I used to enjoy her company but not anymore. She wants me to marry her but...

india Updated: Jun 27, 2006 12:38 IST


Fed-up with sex, commitment!

I am a 25-year-old guy. I am working with a reputed company, located in Himachal Pradesh. I am dating a girl from past two and a half years. We are involved physically too. Initially, I used to enjoy her company but from past six months I am not losing interest. In fact, I get angry on petty issues. She is pressurizing me to marry her but I don't want to marry her. What can I do?


Who is father of the child?

I have a peculiar problem. Man 'X' is the husband of woman 'Y'. Y is pregnant by her husband but during pregnancy if another man 'Z' has regular sex with the lady then who will be father of the child? X or Z? I can't take names. Please help me out.


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Am I a relationship maniac?

I am a 23-year-old man. The girl I loved is no more with me due to strong reasons. We devoted three years to each other and were absolutely loyal. Now after she has gone, I feel so lonely and look for care from opposite sex. Am I becoming a relationship maniac? I feel bad when I realize that I am looking for love and care apart from her, as I just could not think of anyone else when we were together. I think it's wrong to look for love again. I just hate to feel that I am in dire need of someone who will be only mine. Am I behaving abnormally? Please tell me what is wrong with me and how can I rid of it? I need your expert advice.


Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
You are not at all a relationship maniac. You are normal, an average 23-year-old who is upset over the loss of a prized possession. You still have a lot to learn and to experience even more for finding love, loyalty or a caring relationship. Anyone looking for a sincere relationship should be a little less possessive, a little less self-centered and less demanding.


'My girl has lost all interest'

I am 26-years-old going out with a 32-year-old girl. The problem is that she is still a virgin and is very shy about her body. She feels no urge to kiss or make love to me. Initially, we used to indulge sexually but some months down the line she has lost all desire. How do I handle this?


Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
Your contradictory statement, that she is still a virgin but at first we made out a lot, has confused the issue. What I have understood is that both of you have been dating for quite some time but she has not allowed you to be physically intimate and now you are bored. You being more explicit and candid about your expectations from the relationship and its future course can only resolve the problem. A mismatch of expectations is not conducive for a good long-term relationship and both of you can part with each other in a friendly way and move ahead with your lives.