How to get rid of other woman?
1. I am a 27-year-old married man. I live in the US and from here I participate in a lot of social activities in India related to children's welfare and better governance. During one of these activities, I met a 20-year-old girl on the Net and got friendly. We exchanged regular mails over a period of one year and during the talks she opened out on her personal life and details. At a point, she had a sour relationship so I helped her with some friendly advice. I never told her of my marital status since I never got down to personal details and moreover I keep a safe distance from people I meet through the Internet. She started her interactions daily and at times called me from India. I gradually cut down my contact with her. Somehow she got to know that I am married and the next thing I know is she is totally disturbed. She found my wife's email (from the same organization website that we work for) and has started abusing and telling her to divorce me. Ignorance is bliss and that's what I did. But now she has started giving her death threats. I know all this is crazy but what's wrong with this girl? I never said I love her nor getting her in love was my intention. I was just being friendly. Now my wife is angry with me since this is not the first time a girl has liked me. All this is creating problems in my married life. Is it bad to be a plain nice guy and be friendly with someone without any bad intentions? What should I do now?
How to feel an orgasm?
2. I am 21-years-old. I get very excited while having sex with my fiancé but I don't think I have ever felt an orgasm, but he has on multiple occasions. I am curious to know if I am just unaware of how it actually feels or works? He asks me if I have experienced an orgasm, but I honestly can't say for sure. Can you give me any suggestions here?
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Wife has lost sex drive
1. I am a 31-year-old guy. My wife is 25. We have been married for one and half year. It looks like my wife is no longer keen on having sex. Whenever I try to get close, she makes an excuse. It's not that she doesn't like me anymore. It has been 15 days now that we have had sex. Usually I am the one taking the initiative. What should I do now?
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You have not learnt to recognize the moods of your wife even after one and half years of marriage. How do you interpret her reluctance to participate in sexual activity as lack of sexual desire? The hesitation could be due to reasons totally unrelated to sex. Try and figure out the reality for her being put off in general and not just sex.
Capacity to have sex is declining
2. I am a 27-year-old bachelor. Earlier I used to have sex four times in two hours. But now my capacity has decreased. I am able to participate only once and the second time it takes me too long to erect. What could be the reason? Please let me know.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You seem to be unaware of the fact we all start growing old right from the time we are born. The rates at which our body parts and we grow older differ in different individuals. Your sexual apparatus seems to have reached the ripe old age of 27 and you will now have to live with it.
First Published: Nov 24, 2006 18:54 IST