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Tips to help your avoidant partner feel safe

Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST
  • From appreciating efforts to not making them feel overwhelmed, here are a few ways to make your partner feel safe.
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People with avoidant attachment style also deserve to feel safe in the relationship. When a person with anxious attachment style and a person with avoidant attachment style get together, it can be little tricky in the initial phase to figure out how to work things together. "Those with avoidant attachment are human, and they deserve to be treated as such. There are as many avoidant partners who’ve had painful experiences with anxious partners as vice-versa," wrote Relationship Expert Julie Menanno. She further noted down a few ways by which we can make our avoidant partner feel safe. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST

People with avoidant attachment style also deserve to feel safe in the relationship. When a person with anxious attachment style and a person with avoidant attachment style get together, it can be little tricky in the initial phase to figure out how to work things together. "Those with avoidant attachment are human, and they deserve to be treated as such. There are as many avoidant partners who’ve had painful experiences with anxious partners as vice-versa," wrote Relationship Expert Julie Menanno. She further noted down a few ways by which we can make our avoidant partner feel safe. (Unsplash)

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It is important to find a common ground for compromising and understanding in the relationship. When we start to create movement in the relationship and stop obsessing over perfection, we help in achieving safety and calm. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST

It is important to find a common ground for compromising and understanding in the relationship. When we start to create movement in the relationship and stop obsessing over perfection, we help in achieving safety and calm. (Unsplash)

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When the avoidant partner puts in effort, it is important to notice the small changes and appreciate them for what they are doing. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST

When the avoidant partner puts in effort, it is important to notice the small changes and appreciate them for what they are doing. (Unsplash)

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They may need more time to process a lot of emotions. We should allow them the space to process and get back to us about how they felt. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST

They may need more time to process a lot of emotions. We should allow them the space to process and get back to us about how they felt. (Unsplash)

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A lot of information at once can be very overwhelming for an avoidant partner. We should be mindful in giving them small bits of information to process at a time. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jun 21, 2023 01:36 PM IST

A lot of information at once can be very overwhelming for an avoidant partner. We should be mindful in giving them small bits of information to process at a time. (Unsplash)

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