Where is my life partner?
1. I am an NRI living in Europe. I went six times to Mumbai and Delhi to look for a life-partner but it seems that girls there already have boyfriends and those who don't have are not willing to marry an NRI. I am kind-hearted, well mannered, good-looking, educated, settled but yet what do I do wrong that I am unable to find a life partner?
Have I become impotent?
2. I am 29-years-old and my problem is that I've been masturbating since I was 13 and as I was young, I did not take it as part of nature and now I do not enjoy it anymore. My family is trying to get me married. Please advice me how can this problem be solved?
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'I want to get rid of my sins'
1. I am a married man living in Dubai with my relatives from last six years. They have two kids. One day when I was at home, an aunt came over and we discussed things about life and suddenly we started talking about personal sex. My mind changed and we started watching sex channels. After half an hour, I started fondling with her and from that day we indulged in sex almost daily. Now, she is blackmailing me that she will tell my wife if I refuse her. How should I get rid of this? I want to confess this to my wife. I know she will forgive me. Please help me.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Let us not talk of sin but a mistake. For sins you burn in hell and priests of all kinds are in the business of providing remedies or solutions to avoid hell's fire. Mistakes are more serious as you have to suffer the ill effects right here and there are no easy solutions, which can be offered by counselors. All that I can suggest is that you must not take your wife's forgiveness for granted and quickly put an end to this business of daily sex. And not be afraid of blackmail. She will never spoil her own reputation by blackmailing you.
Are wet dreams normal?
2. I am 17. I want to know if wet dreams are normal? I have never indulged in self-pleasure. I think the problem arose two years back when a friend sat on my lap. I have never had sex except for kissing. Please let me know if this is fine?
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Wet dreams are as normal as breathing or experiencing of hunger. You need not worry about wet dreams, as they do not cause physical or mental weakness. Loss of semen during wet dreams is harmless a male body keeps producing semen without using excess energy once the process starts during adolescence.
First Published: Oct 12, 2006 12:53 IST