My wife's ex is back!
1. I am 31-years-old, well-placed person with a happy married life. Few days back, I happened to check my wife's recent mail in which she has been communicating with her ex-boyfriend who is now in Australia. The content of the mail in which she proclaims that she has been thinking of him all of the time, etc, has left me devastated. What I have been thinking of a dream marriage seems to have no roots of love. I do not want to confront her on this otherwise I may be labeled as a peeping tom nor do I want any discussion on this very sensitive issue. I feel I have been a failure as a husband as all these five years of married life I failed to get real love from her. Moreover, she has never told me anything about her last crush and I have never even asked her anything as I had always considered that as a closed matter. She has never been cooperative in bed, but now all of a sudden, she wants a scorpion baby (her ex's sun sign) and wants me to cooperate (which I was happily doing until I came across all this). All this is depressing me deeply and I am not able to concentrate on my job. Please help!
Husband ruining married life
2. I am a 44-year-old woman. My husband is very unhealthy. He smokes and drinks a lot. There is no sex or affection at all from his side and he doesn't even want to change anything. I am very depressed due to all this. I don't have a job, friends, or children and I am new to the place (USA). I want to have a child so badly but in this marriage it seems impossible. I don't know what to do! Please suggest a way out.
'In love with dad's sis'
1. I am a 22-year-old boy in love with my father's sister - mentally and physically. I haven't disclosed this fact to her and not even anyone else. Please suggest me what to do?
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: See, there's no point running after something that cannot be yours. If you disclose your feelings, it will put you and even your family in an embarrassing position. Learn to act your age.