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Here are a few red flags to watch out in your relationship

From arguing over the same thing to taking major decisions without informing you, here are a few warning signs you ought to watch out for, before it’s too late.

sex and relationships Updated: Apr 30, 2018 10:49 IST
Abhinav Verma
If your partner invested in property, or took up a job without telling you, it is a definite deal-breaker.
If your partner invested in property, or took up a job without telling you, it is a definite deal-breaker.(Getty Images)

Relationships always start out happy. We’re so soaked in the bliss of love that we decide to overlook early signs of discord and toxicity. The red flags are there and fluttering, but you choose to look past them. The result? You stick with the wrong person and waste time and love on the one who doesn’t deserve or value it. Experts Pulkit Sharma and Dr. Anil Sethi give us a few warning signs to watch out for.

Arguing over the same thing: You keep defending your position and arguing over little things.

Undue aggression: When every conversation, no matter how futile it may be, turns into an argument, you need to be on your guard.

Taking major decisions without informing you: If your partner invested in property, or took up a job without telling you, it is a definite deal-breaker.

Not taking responsibility: Be it something as petty as leaving the kitchen in a mess, or countering everything with a take-it-or-leave-it attitude. Cut them off when there is no communication.

Not enjoying the company of each other’s friends/ family: They don’t like to chill with your pals or family? It’s time to rethink the relationship.