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Bored of following stereotypical guidelines on love? Here are a few mint-fresh tips on how to woo your Gemini mate.

sex and relationships Updated: Aug 22, 2013 12:16 IST

Woo her with flowers and chocolates or over a quiet candlelit dinner. Smile naturally.. look into her eyes but don't stare.. be your true self. The same works for a man. Are you bored of following these guidelines.. or you feel they don't work anymore? Want to try something different..

Get to know your man or woman.. up close and personal.

How to influence the Gemini woman
Approach her through knowledge and mind activity. She knows about lots of things.. but not in depth.

She's impressed by a person with intellect that she can appreciate. Be sure to sound intelligent even if you don't know what you're talking about.

Be patient ..
She has to bounce back and forth before she makes up her mind about you. Do compliment her on her mental knowledge and ability she'll just love it.

She likes to keep busy to avoid boredom.. find her a few things she can do for you. Be certain to you show your appreciation for her help.

She likes to flit around but needs someone who's stable.. an anchor or her rock of Gibraltar.

She's creative.. so find her an outlet for it. Don't forget to compliment her. She can get depressed easily so be her cheerleader to get .. her up again.

A few don'ts - Don't get physical till you've captured her interest intellectually. She's rather independent, so don't try to control her activities or restrict them.. she'll become quarrelsome and anxiety- ridden.

Don't carry on about depressing and negative things because she can easily fall into depression herself.

Let her know that you really care for her through your words and actions.. she needs that assurance.

Perfect mate
She goes best with - Libra, Aquarius, Gemini and Pisces.

She clashes with - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Capricorn.

Neutral to - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo and Scorpio.

Gemini man

How to influence him

- He's a mental person and likes to talk a lot. So act interested.. don't show you're bored.

Learn to listen. He likes talking to people and may forget about you at a social function.. learn to entertain your self.

He's famous for making you appear at an important meeting.. then showing up late. When you figure out his average late time.. arrive at that time.

<b1>His time is always occupied with things he has to do. Take advantage of this and get him to do things for you.

He's always coming up with something new to do or to talk about.. life certainly won't be boring with him.

If you get mad at him.. it won't be for long. He'll con you into forgiving him.

A few don'ts - Don't try to nail his shoes to the floor to keep him still.. it won't work. He fears boredom worse than death. Don't try to out-talk him.. you can't, and he resents it.

He may take a position or view one day and the next day take a completely different stand.. don't bother to argue for or against any positions he takes.. wait till his view changes to the one you hold.

Then you'll both be in agreement. Don't get overly affectionate in public.. it makes him uneasy .

Perfect mate
He goes best with - Libra, Aquarius, Gemini and Pisces.

He clashes with - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Capricorn.

Neutral to - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo and Scorpio.

First Published: Jun 07, 2007 16:40 IST