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Parenting tips: Understanding why kids don’t listen to us; psychologist explains

They do not feel connected to us: When a child feels dissociated from the parent, they start acting up and not listening to the parent, in order to gain their attention. 
Published on Jul 03, 2024 06:11 PM IST

Parental burnout: What is it? Signs to be aware of

One of the primary signs of parental burnout is noticing that we get frequently frustrated with our children over the smallest of issues. 
Published on Jun 13, 2024 05:15 PM IST

Parenting tips: 5 things to teach your children by the age of 5

In parenting, it is important to remember to break patterns of generational dysfunction by making secure connections emotionally and mentally with the child. "Breaking generational cycles of insecure connection is about more than simply doing things differently than the previous generation. It's about being different in our sense of selves, stories, and emotional regulation," wrote Therapist Eli Harwood.
Published on Jun 07, 2024 11:52 AM IST

Parenting hacks: 5 ways to have a calming morning routine with your child

Parenting is tricky. While we ensure to provide the best of everything for our children, we also need to ensure that we teach them the values and skills required to navigate through life. A calming morning routine should be set with the child so that we can feel safe and relaxed throughout the day. "Routines in general can be tricky but morning routines especially because there tends to be a time crunch. So much to do in so little time. This is your gentle reminder to make sure to infuse short bursts of connection to help reduce stress and cut back on power struggles," wrote Psychologist Jazmine McCoy.
Published on Jun 05, 2024 07:10 PM IST

Parenting tips: 5 facts about toddlerhood that every parent should be aware of

A toddler is very emotionally dependent on us, and their biggest fear is losing our love. Hence, we should refrain from using harsh behaviour towards them. 
Published on Apr 24, 2024 06:00 AM IST

Parenting hacks: Here's how you can help you child deal with big emotions

The first step is to teach them how to be more emotionally aware. Learning to identify emotions and labelling them can help them to address. 
Published on Apr 19, 2024 04:26 PM IST

5 skills children need to learn to manage anger effectively: Coach explains

Identifying the things and situations that act as trigger for their anger and finding coping skills to deal with it can help them. 
Published on Apr 12, 2024 06:00 AM IST

What to do when you lose your cool with your child? Psychologist shares tips

We should be mindful of our actions and reactions and should take accountability. We should not hesitate to apologise. 
Published on Apr 02, 2024 03:00 PM IST

Is your child resisting your calm down strategies? Here's why

Often kids need space to process their emotions and know what they are feeling. Instead of asking them to calm down, it is important to give them that space. 
Published on Mar 29, 2024 03:00 PM IST

Parenting 101: Tips to make transitions easier for children

Transitions are changes in routine or the time required to move from one activity to another. For children, it can be a difficult thing to do. "Give your child two choices to help them feel more in control & independent such as deciding what order to do things, what song to play in the car, whether to run or skip to school, etc," wrote Psychologist Jazmine McCoy as she explained transition and the difficulties associated with it. She also shared a few tips for parents to make transitions easier for their children.
Published on Mar 03, 2024 03:09 PM IST

3 habits of present parents to foster healthy parenting

In parenting, it is important to stay present for the child and address their emotions in a healthy way. Communicating with them and delving deep into understanding why they are behaving in a certain way is important to foster healthy parenting. Psychologist Jazmine McCoy shared a few habits that can help us to be more present for our children.
Published on Mar 01, 2024 06:00 AM IST

Want to teach kids about self-love? Here are 5 things to do

The relationship we have with ourselves is one of the most important ones. Teaching kids about the importance of self-love and finding joy in being ourselves is an important parenting activity. Psychologist Jazmine McCoy shared five things that we must do as parents to imbibe the sense of self-confidence, self-importance and self-love in children at an early age.
Published on Feb 17, 2024 05:55 PM IST

Parenting tips: 5 steps to build a secure relationship with the child

In parenting, it is important to remember to break patterns of generational dysfunction by making secure connections emotionally and mentally with the child. "Breaking generational cycles of insecure connection is about more than simply doing things differently than the previous generation. It's about being different in our sense of selves, stories, and emotional regulation," wrote Therapist Eli Harwood.
Updated on Jan 29, 2024 05:21 PM IST

Baby care tips: 5 ways to keep your toddler safe from mosquitoes

Welcoming a child and creating your own little world within this big one is undoubtedly a delight but it also comes with a great deal of responsibilities where from choosing something as basic as clothes to hair care, food items or something as specific as an insect repellent cream, it is crucial for parents to go all out and look for nothing less than the best. Despite our best attempts as parents to keep our kids safe, tiny things like mosquito bites that might appear to be insignificant end up finding their way to our young children, harming their sensitive skin. 
Published on Jan 29, 2024 01:00 AM IST

Tips to parent young adults to end generational codependency

Healthy parenting involves teaching the child to become empowered and independent and have faith in their own capabilities. Generational codependency can harm the child, and it is important to end it through effective parenting skills. "Parenting young adults offers a unique opportunity to break the cycle of intergenerational codependency. It's about empowering them to be independent, confident, and emotionally resilient," wrote Therapist Linda Meredith.
Published on Jan 27, 2024 01:02 PM IST

What is parentification trauma? How to heal?

When we are brought up in dysfunctional homes, we often take up the role of the parent at an early age. This often happens when our parents are emotionally immature. Hence, we learn to take care of the house, manage conflicts and keep peace very early in life. However, this also affects the adult relationships we get into later in life. Psychologist Caroline Middelsdorf addressed parentification trauma and how we can heal ourselves.
Published on Jan 09, 2024 03:09 PM IST

Is your kid refusing to cooperate? Here's why

Parenting can be tricky. Sometimes the children may refuse to cooperate and listen to us. While these are common parts of parenting, it can also trigger a parent. Instead of taking actions against the kids right away, we need to delve deeper and know why they are refusing to listen to us. Psychologist Jazmine McCoy shared the common reasons.
Published on Dec 03, 2023 06:00 AM IST

5 ways your emotionally immature parent triggers your fight or flight system

The festival time may not be a happy one for everyone. Especially when we are brought up in dysfunctional homes, we run the fear of being traumatised by our parents in front of our relatives and loved ones. "Your nervous system is literally gearing you up for battle... This is not about needing to be stronger, Beloved! This is about finding an internal calm within, even when the storm is raging around you," wrote Therapist Morgan Pommells. Here are a few ways by which our emotionally immature parents may trigger our fight or flight system.
Published on Nov 22, 2023 03:39 PM IST

Halloween trick or treating: Tips for parents and kids to enjoy this tradition

Halloween is celebrated each year on October 31 and historians believe that its tradition originated with an ancient Celtic festival where people lit bonfires and wore costumes to ward off ghosts, serve each other “trick-or-treat”, carve jack-o-lanterns and generally engage in festive gatherings to ward off all evil. Halloween trick-or-treating is a beloved tradition for parents and children alike but safety should always be a top priority hence, to ensure a fun and memorable experience, here are some tips for parents and children to enjoy this popular tradition - 
Published on Oct 27, 2023 05:50 PM IST

Date ideas for busy parents

It's important to prioritize your relationship and make time for each other, even if it's just a small amount of time each week but as a busy parent, it can be challenging to find time to plan and execute date nights. Here are some date ideas that can be done without requiring too much time or preparation:  
Updated on Mar 11, 2023 08:50 PM IST

5 screen safety rules every parent should teach their kids

Screen time is a part of everyday life for most kids today, from online homework to chatting with friends or playing games. However, while the digital world can offer many benefits, it also presents risks. As a parent, it's essential to teach your child how to navigate the online world safely. Jess VanderWier, registered psychotherapist and parenting expert, suggested five screen safety rules for kids in her recent Instagram post. 
Updated on Feb 17, 2023 05:48 PM IST

Travel hygiene tips: Must haves when travelling with kids

Travelling is enjoyable but when it comes to travelling with your family, especially with children, it is easy to imagine why some people start worrying. One has to factor in a ton of uncontrolled occurrences that can pop up while the food, drink and air in a new place require some getting used to. Additionally, children are susceptible to issues brought on by travel, with illnesses like diarrhea and motion sickness. Planning and smart packing can help you keep your family well prepared while travelling. In an interview with HT Lifestyle, Dr Chaman Ram Verma, Dean at NIMS University in Jaipur, revealed to Zarafshan Shiraz a list of must-have items to keep in mind when travelling with kids - 
Updated on Jan 14, 2023 04:40 PM IST

Pet care tips: Here's how to move houses with pets

People move houses for multiple reasons like a job change, partner opportunities and so on, but do you have to move with a dog or cat or some bunnies? Some pets are unfazed by shifting from one home to another. Others, on the other hand, may find being uprooted from their accustomed surroundings and placed in a new home upsetting. 
Updated on May 28, 2022 04:06 PM IST

5 ways parents can keep their kids engaged this summer

Summer vacations have changed over time. Children used to spend their summers engaging in outdoor activities with their friends, visiting grandparents, and catching up on homework. Today, keeping children engaged and active can be a challenge. As the summer season approaches, Eirini Petratou, Senior User Research Manager at BIC Cello, tells Zarafshan Shiraz in an interview with HT Lifestyle, about five tips for parents on how to keep kids creatively engaged and active. 
Updated on May 26, 2022 04:09 PM IST