People who are dying are not as unhappy about it as we might think they are: Study
According to new findings, people dying are not as unhappy as we might think that they are, which impacts the way we would treat them.fitness Updated: Jun 02, 2017 16:12 IST
Thinking about death can cause considerable angst, but according to a new research, the actual emotional experiences of the dying are both more positive and less negative than people expect.
“When we imagine our emotions as we approach death, we think mostly of sadness and terror,” said researcher Kurt Gray of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. “But it turns out, dying is less sad and terrifying--and happier--than you think.” The research, which examined the writings of terminally ill patients and inmates on death row, suggests that we focus disproportionately on the negative emotions caused by dying, without considering the broader context of everyday life.
“Humans are incredibly adaptive - both physically and emotionally--and we go about our daily lives whether we’re dying or not,” Gray explained. “In our imagination, dying is lonely and meaningless, but the final blog posts of terminally ill patients and the last words of death row inmates are filled with love, social connection, and meaning.”
The positive emotions that come with this kind of meaning-making were exquisitely displayed in a recent Modern Love column, written by beloved children’s author Amy Krouse Rosenthal. Rosenthal, who died of ovarian cancer 10 days after her column was published in The New York Times, wrote with profound love and humour about finding someone to marry her husband after she died.
In their first study, Gray and colleagues analyzed the emotional content of blog posts from terminally ill patients who were dying of either cancer or amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). To be included in the study, the blogs had to have at least 10 posts over at least 3 months and the author had to have died in the course of writing the blog. For comparison, the researchers asked a group of online participants to imagine that they had been diagnosed with terminal cancer and to write a blog post, keeping in mind that they had only a few months to live.
Using a computer-based algorithm, trained research assistant coders, and online participant coders, the researchers analyzed the actual and imagined blog posts for words that described negative and positive emotions, such as “fear,” “terror,” “anxiety,” “happiness,” and “love.” The results revealed that blog posts from individuals who were terminally ill included considerably more positive emotion words and fewer negative emotion words than did those written by participants who simply imagined they were dying.
Looking at the patients’ blog posts over time, the researchers also found that their use of positive emotion words actually increased as they neared death, while their use of negative emotion words did not. These patterns held even after Gray and colleagues took the overall word count and number of blog posts into account, suggesting that the increase in positive emotion words was not simply due to the effects of writing over time.
In a second study, the researchers conducted similar analyses comparing the last words of inmates on death row with the poetry of death-row inmates and the imagined last words of another group of online participants. Again, they found that the words of those who were actually close to death were less negative and more positive in emotional tone than the words of those who were not close to death. Gray and his co-authors acknowledge that the findings may not apply to all people who are approaching death - it’s unclear whether individuals facing a great deal of uncertainty or those who die of old age express similarly positive emotions near the end of life.
Ultimately, the findings suggest that our expectations may not match the reality of dying, which has important implications for how we treat people who are dying. The findings are published in Psychological Science.
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