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The woo factor!

A romantic move from you might shock a girl. Throw few tantrums.

india Updated: Feb 08, 2007 19:36 IST
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If you want more from a girl than just friendship, you should be aware of this early enough. You can’t be friends with her first then change your mind. It will be hard to bring out the romance.

A romantic move from you might shock a girl who has been growing accustomed to you as just a friend. However, depending on how you feel friendship can be the strongest foundation for a loving relationship. If you can see your attraction leading somewhere, make your move.

The first step
If you have some feelings for her, say so. She will probably be feeling as aware of you as you are of her.

Depending on the situation, saying what you feel can be done on your first date together, or a few days later when you are on the brink of friendship.

You will naturally want to give her little signs that you like her and see how she reacts.

The first signs
Body contact is very important. This doesn’t mean you have to grab her behind (although you can if the situation turns out that way, you will know from her reactions).

If she’s responsive, you can touch her ear or her lips or saying something like: "I really like your dress” or “Your hair smells so nice." These moments will be intense and wonderful for both of you and the feelings more beautiful when disclosed.

First Published: Feb 08, 2007 15:14 IST