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Karishma Mehta: Office favourites and marriage talk
If you’re jealous of the new office joinee, then here’s some perspective for you. And how to ignore the marriage question at family functions
Just be you
A new person has joined my team and is already a favourite among my colleagues. How do I win them over?
—Krishna, Via Instagram
In my opinion, you may be overthinking it. Just be yourself—there is no such thing as ‘winning people over’—people do as they please anyway, so there’s no point losing yourself to this process. Be you, in the realest and most authentic way. And focus on nurturing your work and relationships.
Matter of choice
How can I dodge the ‘when will you get married’ question at a family wedding?
—Anamika, Delhi
I’m 30 and single, so, believe me, I understand how frustrating this question can be. To be honest, people will keep asking, you just have to make sure it doesn’t get to you. Be the best version of yourself—who is happy and fulfilled—and let that speak for itself. That’s what I’ve been focussing on.
Karishma Mehta, @karimehta05 on Instagram, is a writer, photographer and founder & CEO at Humans of Bombay
From HT Brunch, August 20, 2022
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