Want to be with your partner 20 years from now? Relationship coach says these 10 habits can make your love stronger

Published on: May 13, 2025, 15:02:35 IST

By Sanya Panwar

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Relationship coach shares 10 habits you need to adopt if you want to stay with your partner 20 years from now. (Pexels)

The universal love question that most couples want an answer to: what's the secret to making a relationship last? Here's what a relationship coach suggests.

Building a strong, lasting relationship requires effort and commitment from both partners. According to Sam Hughes, a 'mindset and relationship coach' based in the UK, here are 10 habits that can help. Also read | 95-year-old grandma's honest dating advice is winning the internet: ‘Be happy on your own, man is just an add-on'

In an Instagram post he shared on November 15, 2024, Sam said, “If you still want to be together 20 years from now, here are 10 habits you need to start today.” Relationship success is largely dependent on intentions, and as per Sam, these habits could be the secret to a lasting relationship:

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Be honest, clear and direct

1. Make time for each other. If the connection isn’t a priority in your relationship then it’s going to disappear

2. Express your appreciation for them, everyday. Tell them what you love about them, tell them how much they mean to you.

3. Actively listen to what they say. It’s so easy to be distracted in this world. Take the time to ask open-ended questions and really listen to what they say.

4. Be honest, clear and direct about things you want and need. Stop expecting them to be able to read your mind.

5. Practice forgiveness and letting go. We all make mistakes. If you hold onto your partner, nothing but resentment will grow.

Be physical, laugh together

6. Invest in yourself not just the relationship. Go and do things alone. Be your own person!

7. Check in with them regularly about how they feel the relationship is going. This helps you nip problems in the bud before they become big issues.

8. Be physical. Hug them when they come home and kiss them before they leave. It’s a habit, and the longer you don’t do it, the harder it can be to start again.

9. Laugh together. Do things that are fun! Go and be big kids again and experience that innocent joy.

10. Always be honest. If you made a mistake, be honest about it. Trust is the foundation of a relationship.

Note to readers: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Sanya Panwar
With a keen eye for detail and a heart for storytelling, Sanya is a seasoned lifestyle journalist who has spent over a decade documenting the intersection of aesthetics and substance. Since stepping into the media world in 2012, she has cultivated a career defined by versatility, curiosity, and an unwavering passion for what makes life both beautiful and meaningful. Over the last many years, she has navigated the fast-paced realms of health, wellness, fitness and fashion while pivoting seamlessly into the nuances of decor and travel. Her work often explores the deeper layers of modern living, delving into art and decor trends that transform spaces, insightful perspectives on gender, parenting, and mental health, immersive travel narratives that capture the essence of a destination. A self-proclaimed aesthetics enthusiast, Sanya doesn't just report on trends — she analyses them. Whether she’s identifying the next shift in fitness or discovering a breakthrough in design, she uses her platform to spark meaningful conversations that resonate with a contemporary audience. Sanya is an alumna of St. Xavier’s College, Kolkata, and the Asian College of Journalism (ACJ), Chennai, where she honed the investigative rigour she brings to her lifestyle reporting today. When she isn't chasing deadlines or conducting interviews, Sanya practices what she preaches. You’ll likely find her sipping matcha, practicing yoga, or scouting the newest cafes. Above all, she finds her balance in nature — whether it's a quiet hike or a moment of reflection in the outdoors, she remains constantly inspired by the tranquillity of the natural world.Read More

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