How to respond to someone when they are gaslighting you

By , Delhi
Updated On Aug 27, 2023 04:44 pm IST

From standing up for us to stating our intentions, here are a few ways to respond to gaslighting in a relationship.

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Gaslighting is an extremely toxic behavior where one person tries to manipulate the other person in a relationship to control them. "Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic where one person seeks to gain power and control over another by making them question their own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions," explained Therapist Israa Nasir. She further shared a few tips on how to respond to gaslighting.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Updated on Aug 27, 2023 04:44 pm IST

Gaslighting is an extremely toxic behavior where one person tries to manipulate the other person in a relationship to control them. "Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic where one person seeks to gain power and control over another by making them question their own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions," explained Therapist Israa Nasir. She further shared a few tips on how to respond to gaslighting.(Unsplash)

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Instead of succumbing to their control, we can always say that we are trying to put forward our perspective and we should find common grounds to work on it. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Instead of succumbing to their control, we can always say that we are trying to put forward our perspective and we should find common grounds to work on it. (Unsplash)

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When the intentions get questioned, we should clearly state that we are doing things with the right intention and trying our level best to make things work. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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When the intentions get questioned, we should clearly state that we are doing things with the right intention and trying our level best to make things work. (Unsplash)

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Sometimes it is important to stand up for us. When we feel a tinge of violence or abuse in their words, we should learn to stop communication and ask them to not cross the boundaries. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Sometimes it is important to stand up for us. When we feel a tinge of violence or abuse in their words, we should learn to stop communication and ask them to not cross the boundaries. (Unsplash)

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Every time a conversation gets changed into a fight, we should try to return to the discussion and maintain peace and respect for each other. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Every time a conversation gets changed into a fight, we should try to return to the discussion and maintain peace and respect for each other. (Unsplash)

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When the other person mentions that we are trying to blame them, we should remind them that everyone is entitled to their actions and responsibilities. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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When the other person mentions that we are trying to blame them, we should remind them that everyone is entitled to their actions and responsibilities. (Unsplash)

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    ABOUT THE AUTHOR
    Tapatrisha Das

    Tapatrisha is Content Producer with Hindustan Times. She covers stories related to health, relationships, and fashion.

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