What abandoning yourself can look like

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Published on Aug 03, 2023 10:43 am IST

From not keeping promises to staying back in toxic relationships, here are a few signs of self-abandonment.

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Self-abandonment is when we try to suppress our own needs and priorities. "You might have a desire or need you want to meet, but you make the decision not to meet that need. ⁣⁣We abandon ourselves when we don't value ourselves and when we don't act in our own best interest," wrote Therapist Allyson Kellum-Aguirre. She further noted down a few signs of self-abandonment.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 03, 2023 10:43 am IST

Self-abandonment is when we try to suppress our own needs and priorities. "You might have a desire or need you want to meet, but you make the decision not to meet that need. ⁣⁣We abandon ourselves when we don't value ourselves and when we don't act in our own best interest," wrote Therapist Allyson Kellum-Aguirre. She further noted down a few signs of self-abandonment.(Unsplash)

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Often, we make promises to ourselves and don’t follow through with them because we think that keeping our own promises is not important enough. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 03, 2023 10:43 am IST

Often, we make promises to ourselves and don’t follow through with them because we think that keeping our own promises is not important enough. (Unsplash)

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When things bother us, we do not speak up for ourselves – instead, we stay silent and tolerate everything. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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When things bother us, we do not speak up for ourselves – instead, we stay silent and tolerate everything. (Unsplash)

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We also do emotional harm to ourselves by staying back in relationships that are unhealthy for us. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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We also do emotional harm to ourselves by staying back in relationships that are unhealthy for us. (Unsplash)

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Boundaries are important to maintain emotional and mental stability and peace. When we do not uphold personal boundaries, we make ourselves prone to getting hurt. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Boundaries are important to maintain emotional and mental stability and peace. When we do not uphold personal boundaries, we make ourselves prone to getting hurt. (Unsplash)

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We often end up saying yes to things and tasks when we deep down disagree with them. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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We often end up saying yes to things and tasks when we deep down disagree with them. (Unsplash)

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We also do not prioritise our own needs and compromise them to please others. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 03, 2023 10:43 am IST

We also do not prioritise our own needs and compromise them to please others. (Unsplash)

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    ABOUT THE AUTHOR
    Tapatrisha Das

    Tapatrisha is Content Producer with Hindustan Times. She covers stories related to health, relationships, and fashion.

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