Woman reflects on loneliness in high-rise societies: ‘No one pays attention to anyone’
A woman shared her thoughts on high-rise living, saying crowded societies often felt lonely and disconnected.
A woman’s observation about life in high-rise residential complexes has struck a chord online after she spoke about the loneliness that can exist despite being surrounded by hundreds of people. In a video shared on Instagram, she reflected on how modern residential societies, though designed to bring communities together, can sometimes leave residents feeling disconnected from those living around them.

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The video shows a sprawling view of several high-rise residential towers from a balcony as the woman speaks about what she sees as an overlooked reality of urban living.
‘There is so much loneliness’
The video was shared on Instagram by Sunita Badal, who pointed towards the buildings while talking about the sense of isolation she associates with life in such residential complexes.
"These high-rise buildings, you know, there is so much loneliness in them. There are towers, it's a society, after all, an entire community was built so that people wouldn't feel lonely. But in these buildings, there is only loneliness and emptiness. No one pays attention to anyone."
Her remarks highlight a contradiction often associated with life in large cities, where thousands of people may live within a relatively small area but have limited interaction with neighbours or others in their immediate surroundings.
High-rise residential societies typically offer shared spaces and amenities intended to create a sense of community. However, the woman suggested that physical proximity does not necessarily translate into meaningful social connections.
Watch the clip here:
Video sparks reactions
The post has garnered a few reactions from social media users, with several agreeing with the woman’s observation about isolation in urban residential spaces.
One user wrote, "This is so true for modern city life." Another commented, "Surrounded by people, yet feeling completely alone." A third user said, "High-rise living can feel strangely isolating." Echoing a similar sentiment, another added, "This hits harder than expected."
(Also read: Man contrasts high-rise living with old neighbourhoods, says there’s no real sense of community)
HT.com has reached out to the user for her comments, and the copy will be updated once her response is received.
(Disclaimer: This report is based on user-generated content from social media. HT.com has not independently verified the claims and does not endorse them.)
ABOUT THE AUTHORMahipal Singh ChouhanMahipal Singh Chouhan is a Senior Content Producer at Hindustan Times Digital, with nearly five years of experience in digital journalism and content production. He primarily covers offbeat, trending and human-interest stories, with a focus on emerging social media trends, online conversations and real-world incidents that capture public attention. At Hindustan Times, Mahipal works on identifying and developing fast-moving digital stories, adding context and journalistic perspective to viral moments while maintaining accuracy, clarity and readability for online audiences. Before joining Hindustan Times Digital, he was associated with DNA India, where he gained experience in newsroom workflows and digital storytelling. He holds a degree in Journalism and Mass Communication from the Vivekananda Institute of Professional Studies, Delhi. Beyond journalism, he has a keen interest in history and sports and enjoys expanding his general knowledge.Read More

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