Fluctuation in menses
1. My menses started at the age of 14 and have been regular since then. But after getting married, the date of my periods has started fluctuating. They start five days prior to the actual date of periods. I want to know if this is healthy? Do I need to see a gynecologist?
Milk without breast-feed
2. I got married five years ago and delivered my second baby in 2002. Till three months I was feeding my son but after some time he didn't respond to breast milk, so I put him on cerelac. Recently, I have noticed milk flowing from my breast. How is this possible when I stopped breast-feeding? Please guide me.
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Wife has a secret lover!
1. I recently found out that my wife has been secretly chatting with her old friend. Apparently, this guy had a crush on her and still feels strongly for her. He is married and has two kids. When I confronted my wife about the subject, she admitted that it was inappropriate and promised never to engage in such activity again. She convinced me that she loves me a lot and did this in a spur of moment without realizing its consequences and confessed that she had no feelings for this man. However, this whole incidence bothers me as I feel that my wife has violated family norms. I love her and don't want to break my family. How can I get over this issue?
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: There is no special technique for forgetting and forgiving except to tell yourself that your wife has accepted her mistake and that is it. There is no need of brooding over something that's over. It seems you have never heard the saying 'anyone who does not forget and forgive only collects garbage in the brain'. So, I advise you to trust your wife and move on.
In love with an older woman
2. I am a 22-year-old engineering graduate. I love my lecturer but she is married and is elder to me. However, at times I have noticed her giving attention to me. What should I do? Please guide.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Grow up and grow out of Oedipal complex. All little boys are in love with their mothers and want to marry them. Of course, this lady you are describing must be beautiful and has a seductive style. You better find a suitable girlfriend and get out of this hassle of scandalous lecturer-student affair.
First Published: Jan 19, 2006 20:42 IST