How to stop all that nagging
Kiss to end it: When it’s been a while since your partner has been at it, instead of ignoring, stand right in front of them, smile, and seal their mouth with a passionate kiss. Read on to know mrore...india Updated: Aug 21, 2010 00:26 IST
Here's how to end all that nagging and spend a quiet and romantic time with your partner.
Kiss to end it:
When it’s been a while since your partner has been at it, instead of ignoring, stand right in front of them, smile, and seal their mouth with a passionate kiss. The chapter will be closed before you know it.
Figure out the cause:
Sense the deeper depression behind the nagging. In most cases, he/she turns bitter because of a lingering hurt. Cup their mouth while they’re speaking, make them sit and spend a minute in silence, ask him/her if there’s something else they want to say. And listen. Control the urge to snap back.
Explain your side:
Once he/she has finished his/her side of the story, explain yours. But don’t get defensive. Starting with, “I’m sorry since it upset you, but I only meant...” is the best way out.
Humour may be the key:
Humour also works in some situations: bow, fold your hands, grin widely, fake a knife attack, act clumsy — your partner’s anger will melt in no time once they see the child in you.
Make it up to him/her:
Offer something to make up for it. A special night, a weekend getaway, something they’ve always wanted to do with you. It shows how much you value them, even if you can’t fulfill all expectations.
First Published: Aug 20, 2010 17:03 IST